There is a saying that children learn what they live. I believe this to be true. I was almost fifteen years old when we moved from “The Bottom.” Because of individual and systemic racism, we lived in abject poverty the entire time. Black people were still denied basic civil and human rights and used separate …
In the early 1960’s, Dick Gregory, comedian and political activist was credited with saying these words, “I know the South very well. I spent twenty years there one night”. Those of us who lived in the South felt the same way. One night can seem like twenty long years. Individual and systemic racism destroyed many …
Throughout my childhood, I saw MaDear and Dad praying but didn’t see with my young natural eyes the results of their prayers. What I didn’t understand at the time was that God was with us all along. We went through many hardships, but we never went through anything that He couldn’t handle. Until now, my …
We had a cast-iron black stove with a pot belly that was located in the center room of our shack. Dad alternated putting wood and coal in its bulging midsection. In the late fall and winter, we loved to sit around the stove and listen to the flames crackle the dry wood. The warm fire …
Even though we were economically poor, I was happy and eager to enter my first year of junior high school. I was blooming! I had friends at school and friends in the neighborhood. My best friend BB invited me to go with her to a girl’s summer camp for vacation Bible school. The camp was …
Black people didn’t have a reprieve from the discrimination and violence going on in the United States. By now, four young girls were killed in a Birmingham church that was bombed by segregationists. Other young people were injured. Dr. Martin Luther King had written his famous letter from the Birmingham jail. Later that year, he …
Our teachers were nurturing and insightful. Most of them lived in Memphis and drove to our school in Arlington. Their children also attended the same school. As the years passed, I learned to spell well. Every night, I practiced my spelling words by the dim light of the coal-oil lamp. Toward the end of the …
The city of Millington was located approximately ten miles from where we lived. The downtown area was populated with a large grocery store, businesses, doctor’s office, retail shops, tattoo shops, and a movie theatre. There was a large elementary and high school located on Navy Road on the outskirts of downtown, but only white students …
When we moved to the military community, the children and some adults stared at us like we were ghosts. We were a family of curly haired children with dark black hair described as “blue black.” The neighborhood people were used to seeing one or two curly haired children in a family but not an entire …
MaDear and Dad believed in keeping in contact with family. We did not have a telephone or a vehicle, but they found a way. Letter writing was a common way to communicate. The stamps cost about three cents. Sometimes, three cents was hard to get. Poppa’s sister moved from Mississippi to New York City many …